How to help?

Are you worried that a woman in your neighbourhood is experiencing partner violence?
Maybe you would like to support her, but don't know how to go about it?
That's where StoP comes in. We offer information and answers with practical guidance on moral courage and solidarity.

How can I help myself?

Some ways you can help:

Look

Don't look away. You probably suspect violence. You can recognise warning signs such as:

Withdrawal from social life

Inconsistencies in explaining injuries

Decisions are only made in consultation with the partner

Change of behaviour and fear

Address

Pay attention to sensitive and considerate behavior and body language
Listen and believe her!
Stick with it, but don't push her
Condemn the violence! This can be a clear signal for those affected
The woman knows about your willingness to help and could contact you
Maybe she needs time

Act together

Do not trade without the knowledge or consent of the persons concerned!
Unless it is an acute violent situation.

Activate other neighbours and get support.

I hear or see an acute violent situation. What can I do?

Sometimes it means: act quickly. Be careful not to let the situation escalate further.

interrupt violence

Do you hear or see a violent situation? Interrupt her.

For example, ring the doorbell and ask for something, such as a charging cable or sugar.
The situation is briefly interrupted and those involved know that you have noticed the argument and could get help.
Don't put yourself in danger.

call the police

If you assume that you observe or hear acute violence, do not hesitate to call the police on the emergency number 110!

Better one call too many than one too few!

Point out possibilities for help

You can refer to counselling and support services by giving specific addresses and telephone numbers, for example:

Help hotline "Violence against women" 08000 116 016
Berlin Initiative against Violence against Women - BIG Hotline: 030 - 611 03 00 every day 8 a.m.-2 p.m.
"Gewaltschutzambulanz" (Outpatient clinic for the prevention of violence) at the Charité Berlin 030 450 570 270
Birkenstr. 62, House N, 10559 Berlin

If you are unsure how you can help, contact StoP with your case!